A Piece of Aphrodite

Every woman has a piece of Aphrodite…

This is an account of Anthony’s main relationships over the years, plus a couple of other things that seem relevant. I’ve tried to back up comments made with sources so everything has a basis. Obviously the main source of information is Anthony’s own book, Scar Tissue, and this is in no way intended to replace that; this is a summary of the relationships discussed in more detail in the book and it also continues from where the book left off until the current day.

Please note: I’ve tried to make this as accurate as possible but it might be inaccurate in places as I don’t have first hand information and am piecing together information from other sources so please don’t take it as gospel (I am more than happy to be corrected on anything included!).



The story of how Anthony lost his virginity at a young age has passed pretty much into the RHCP Book of Lore but just in case anyone doesn’t know, this is the account from ‘Scar Tissue’:



Interesting Fact:

While still at high school, Anthony proposed to Debbie Harry of Blondie:


 Source: Scar Tissue by Anthony Kiedis with Larry Sloman, page 76*


The Girlfriends….

Haya Handel 1979-1982

 With my not necessarily warranted sense of self-confidence, instilled in me by my father, I was constantly attempting to unite with a woman.  Fortunately, I was given a reprieve from this quest at the age of seventeen, when I fell in love for the first time.

Her name was Haya Handel, and she was my high school sweetheart.  For the next two years, I experienced wonderful sensations of warm-hearted contentment with her.  Sadly, as is often the case, my first love crumbled, and I was quickly tossed back into the sea of fish.

Details magazine, July 1992

Haya and Anthony were high school sweethearts. They were close friends already but Kiedis wanted to take the relationship further which he did by taking flowers and a poem to Haya at school; unfortunately he was late and class had already begun but he presented them anyway- much to the delight of his fellow classmates and the embarrassment of Haya!

 “..and he brought his Haya Handel over to meet me. They had their own Romeo and Juliet scenario; Haya’s father would only let her date Jewish boys…”

Lords of the Sunset Strip: An Autobiography’ by Blackie Dammett; page 157.

The relationship between the couple developed although the issue of Anthony not being Jewish was always a problem and he had to pretend to just be Haya’s friend when in the presence of her family (see Scar Tissue pages 73-5* for more information). They dated for a couple of years and even enrolled at UCLA together because Haya wanted to remain with Anthony. However, the relationship started to disintegrate due to the fact Anthony was the wrong religion for it to develop any farther;

 “Then we lay in Hillel’s bed, holding each other tight and crying for what seemed like hours because we both knew that this great love was coming to an end.”

 Scar Tissue; page 91*


Nina Hagen 1983

Anthony had a passionate fling with German punk singer Nina Hagen. He first met her after a gig; Anthony came off stage and headed to speak to his father noticing her in the process;

 “… but then there was this exquisitely beautiful, older woman, to me because she was probably twenty-nine or thirty and I was maybe twenty or twenty-one. She had this crazy thick accent and she was all colourful… And it was Nina Hagen. She was so beautiful and so exotic looking. She had her colorful, alien, superfreak look, but beyond that she was just very East German. Overbite, high cheek bones. Just a radiant lady and I fell in love with her at that moment… That was also the beginning of a romance that sparked up for a little while. She taught me a lot about life at a young, tender age… So I basically fell in in love and had sex with my first fan.”

‘Fandemonium’ by David Mushegain with forward by Anthony Kiedis; pages 15-16

“After meeting in March after one of the early Chili Peppers shows at the Cathy de Grande, Hagen and Anthony had a physical relationship for about a month, cooling off once  Hagen’s more serious boyfriend returned from out of town… Seven years his senior, Hagen was an experienced “wise soul” and a worldly mentor of sorts to Anthony; his exposure to her way of life and her vastly different worldview led to many changes in his lifestyle.”

Out in L.A. by Hamish Duncan; page 158

The relationship might not have lasted that long but it led to a long lasting legacy for all Red Hot Chili Peppers’ fans as Nina’s attitude inspired Anthony and provided the inspiration for ‘Give It Away’ when she gave him a much loved jacket:

Aged only 20 when the pair went out, Kiedis had been impressed by Hagen’s principal that the more she gave away, the more she would always receive.”

‘Red Hot Chili Peppers: Inside the Veins of The Velvet Glove’ by Martin Roach


Jennifer Bruce 1985-87

Jennifer was attending the Fashion institute in LA when Kiedis first met her at a party;

  “Within minutes, I was blown away by her presence, her aura, and her fashion statement.” ‘Scar Tissue’ Anthony Kiedis with Larry Sloman;

Scar Tissue; page 124*

However, Jennifer did not totally respond to Anthony’s advances and Anthony left for a trip to Europe with Flea, but unable to forget Jennifer, he hooked up with her again on his return to the U.S. (Scar Tissue; page 129*). Their relationship was stormy with Jennifer unable to cope with Kiedis touring and his frequent disappearances in search of drugs, but at the same time they had an incredibly intense sexual relationship which was paradoxically also often based on drug use; drugs that Jennifer herself was increasingly becoming addicted to.

“…Cupid shot them up, and they became a fiery couple for a minor millennium. It was his first live-with alliance. Their first home together was a funny little bungalow on a runt of a trail called Banner of Vine Street, surrounded by fruit trees, weeds and litter that helped obscure it from reality. Together they wandered off into drug addiction.”

‘Lords of the Sunset Strip: An Autobiography’ By Blackie Dammett; page 189

Despite dating Jennifer and being in love with her, Kiedis was unfaithful on tour to her (on one night he met the Catholic girl who inspired the song, ‘Catholic School Girls Rule’) and also moved in with a female friend called Kim Jones; Kim was a fellow drug addict and their relationship was one based on friendship, mutual understanding and drugs. Needless to say Anthony and Jennifer’s relationship became complicated and Jennifer started to distrust Kiedis:

 “Even though I was mainly staying at Kim’s house, Jennifer was still my girlfriend. Jennifer became convinced that Kim and I were having sex. One day she came by Kim’s house, and Kim and I were sound asleep, naked and cuddling up… No romance, just friendship… Jennifer didn’t see it that way. Kim and I woke up to Jennifer shattering the bedroom window.”

Scar Tissue; page 180*

The relationship between Jennifer and Anthony became increasingly complicated and there was a lot of violence:


 Anthony returned from that tour to be told that Jennifer was seeing Chris Fish (the keyboard player of Fishbone) and, somewhat hypocritically, Kiedis dumped her as a result. However the couple got back together again after Jennifer spent several weeks sleeping on the doormat of Anthony’s place in attempt to get back with him. One night he relented;

 “I can’t remember if I gave in to her love or if I was so bad off that I needed twenty bucks or if she came offering drugs… but I let her in and we picked up where we left off. High as kites together, back into the mix of a totally dysfunctional but passionate relationship”.

Scar Tissue; page 189*

Shortly after, The Red Hot Chili Peppers were due to play a charity gig on the same bill as Fishbone and everyone was excited about the concert but things went wrong on the night. Chris Fish suggested that Jennifer should join Fishbone on stage as a backing vocalist which she did, against Anthony’s wishes. Annoyed at being publicly ridiculed, Kiedis sought revenge by asking a good looking woman to join him on stage during the band’s performance of ‘Foxy Lady’; she did and Jennifer became angry at the resulting performance. (You can see what happened from about 1.20 onwards in the video below). Jennifer rushed on stage, attacking the woman and especially Kiedis. The couple were finished.

Thanks to James Slovak for uploading the video


Ione Sky 1987-8

“From the moment I laid eyes on Ione, I knew that goddess was going to be my girlfriend.”

Scar Tissue; page 202*

Ione Skye is an actress and the daughter of 1960s singer, Donovan. She dated Anthony for a couple of years and was his girlfriend at the time of Hillel Slovak’s death; in fact, it was Ione who broke the news to Anthony that his friend had died. They lived together:


Anthony’s drug addiction was in full-swing for most of their relationship (he did stop on the trip to Mexico with Ione after Hillel’s death for a few days but started again as soon as he was back in LA), and although Ione seemed to accept his use of drugs it may have played a part in the end of their relationship in another way:

“Before he cleaned up, Kiedis had been friends with a Mexican drug dealer named Mario. The latter’s favourite hang-out was under a freeway bridge in downtown Los Angeles. It was a no-go area for anyone who wasn’t a member of a Mexican gang- in order to be allowed in, Kiedis had to pretend to be engaged to Mario’s sister. This would prove to be a major factor in the break-up of his two-year relationship with actress Ione Skye, daughter of ‘60s folk singer Donovan.

Q 228 July 2005

Difficulties between the couple grew and there were often arguments;

“There wasn’t anything horrible going on between us, but we weren’t making each other happy, and we weren’t giving ourselves to each other. We were fading and fighting…”

Scar Tissue; page 245*

During their fights, Anthony told Ione to leave several times,and sometimes she did leave, but always went back to him after a short time but on the tenth time she called his bluff and left for good. Kiedis took a Christmas present round a short time later and was asked by her mother to leave it outside, thus signalling the relationship was over for good this time (she went on to date and marry Adam Horovitz of the Beastie Boys). Anthony was left to regret the break-up;

 “I spent countless days laying on a bunch of old mattresses and shooting up,” Kiedis recalls. “I’d had this beautiful angel of a girl who was willing to give me all of her love, and instead of embracing that, I was doing speedballs with a bunch of fucking killers.”

Q 228 July 2005


 Carmen Hawke/ (Karen)  1990

Anthony was backstage at a show in Japan (January 1990) debating what to do about a message from a girl who he’d slept with the night before;

“…I was sitting backstage when I looked up and saw the cutest girl I’d ever seen in my life walk into the dressing room… At that very moment, my destiny became clear to me. She was my new girlfriend”

Scar Tissue; page 253*

That girl was Carmen Hawk, a model who was doing some work over in Japan. They had a few days together before Anthony went home via London- there he met a woman called Karen who he spent a few days with before returning to LA where he later hooked up with Carmen again. Their relationship was to be a rollercoaster one with incredible ups and the lowest downs:

“… I adored her… she was the most sexual person I had ever found myself in love with.

Scar Tissue; page 254*

Meanwhile  my relationship with Carmen was tumultuous. She was off her rocker. I got her to go to therapy so she didn’t kill herself… I kept trying unsuccessfully to end the relationship, but after I bought my house, she simply would not leave. She locked herself in the bathroom with a knife. She had gone in there to cut her wrists. And I had to knock down the door to get to her… I finally bought her a plane ticket so she could go model in Italy, and that was the end of our relationship.”

Scar Tissue; pages 260-261*

 Carmen: Inspired Songs

Anthony and his new girlfriend, Carmen Hawk, took me out for a big five-0 birthday dinner at an Italian restaurant on Las Palmas. She was one of my favourite of his girlfriends, but the relationship ended in fast-moving wildfire. Anthony may not have been as bad as me, but he wasn’t exactly monogamous. Carmen contested the breakup and fought it in the court of broken hearts, “Breaking the Girl” chronicled the emotional pathology…”

‘Lords of the Sunset Strip: An Autobiography’ By Blackie Dammett; page 283

Blood Sugar Sex Magik was also partly based on this relationship;

“…which was a song that was partly an homage to my incredible sexual encounters with Carmen.”

Scar Tissue; page 279*


Sinead O’Connor 1990

O’Connor was famous at the time as a singer she met and dated Anthony Kiedis but she later became a Catholic Priest and has since apparently converted to Islam.

Sinead and Kiedis met while both playing at a European festival in 1989; Kiedis dedicated “Party on Your Pussy” to her in a somewhat obtuse attempt to get her attention considering she was a feminist and political rights campaigner. However,  it worked and she mentioned Anthony in return during her show. The two spoke briefly in her dressing room with Anthony writing her a love letter which she apparently kept (Scar Tissue; pages 267-8*). The two went on their separate ways with Kiedis going on to have a relationship with Carmen Hawke. Then Kiedis started to hear rumours that she’d moved back to LA and one day he bumped in to her;

“One look at her, and I just melted. I would have married her on the spot.”

Scar Tissue; page 268*

He mentioned the letter he’d sent to her at the festival and she explained that she still had it; a relationship started to develop with the couple going to movies and museums with Anthony teaching her to drive;

 “This went on for weeks, and it became the most wonderful, nonsexual relationship I’d ever had. I adored her, and every day I’d wake up and write her a little poem and fax it to her.”

Scar Tissue’; page 269*

And then suddenly the relationship came to an end after Sinead left an abrupt and totally unexpected message on his answering machine;

“Hey, Anthony, this is Sinead. I’m moving out of Los Angeles tomorrow, and I don’t want you to call me or come by before I leave. Good-bye.”

Scar Tissue; page 269*

Anthony wrote a song to express his feelings and worked together with RHCP guitarist, John Frusciante, through the night and a violent rainstorm, to finish it. He posted it through her mail box at 5 a.m. That song was ‘I Could Have Lied.’ (Note: AK refers to it as ‘I Could Have Lied’ in Scar Tissue (page 270*) but it’s listed as ‘I Could Of Lied’ on the  Blood Sugar Sex Magik album)

  “We did a show together right after her first record came out, and she had combat boots and a dress and a shaved head, and she was so fucking beautiful. And I said to myself, ‘I have to hang out with this girl.’ And eventually that happened, but [it] ended in an abrupt and inexplicable kind of vanquishment-if that’s a word. And I never figured it out, and eventually I stopped kind of trying to figure it out.”

GQ magazine, November 2004

Sinead has since publicly denied any relationship with Kiedis;

 “I never had a relationship with him, ever. I hung out with him a few times and the row we had was because he suggested we might become involved. I don’t give a s**t about the song he wrote. “I’m not a Red Hot Chili Peppers fan. I can’t bear them, I don’t get it.”

(Taken from ‘My Park Magazine’ which has since closed)


 Julie (?) 1992

Julie was a short-lived girlfriend while Kiedis was staying in New Zealand;

“One night we were playing pool when a longhaired brunette goddess out of a Kiwi fairy tale walked into the room…“I came to find you she,” explained. “I heard you were in town, and I’ve come to get you.” Julie got me, all right…”

Scar Tissue; page 302*

Sofia Coppola 1992-3


Screen cap from the Details: Changing Fashion film

Actress,model, film-director and daughter of director Francis Ford Coppola;

“…. another one of my unfulfilled attempts at a relationship during this period of my life.”

Scar Tissue; page 291*

Note: In the order given in Scar Tissue, Sofia Coppola is mentioned after Sinead O’Connor and before Julie but that seems to be earlier than the time they were dating as confirmed by other things hence the 1992-3 date given.

In Scar Tissue, Anthony mentions that he asked her to watch RHCP’s performance on the TV show, Saturday Night Live where they played ‘Under the Bridge’ and ‘Stone Cold Bush’. That performance became infamous because it’s the one where Peppers’ guitarist, John Frusciante, played ‘Under The Bridge’ differently thereby upsetting Kiedis who kicked Frusciante and swung a mic at his head as a result.  Apparently Kiedis was even more upset because his new girlfriend, Coppola, was watching. That SNL performance was in February 1992.

In Vogue (June 1994), there’s a reference to Anthony Kiedis and Sofia Coppola dating and it gives the date as 1993. The couple also appeared in a short film for Details magazine; the release date of that is again 1993 (although the film could have been released later it does seem to confirm the 92-3 date). For more information on that film (video, summary and screen caps) please see the separate article: Details: Changing Fashion 1993


Carine (Karine) Rueda January 1993


Anthony Kiedis & Karine Rueda, Brazil 1993

Photo and article kindly provided by RHCPtv1

A brief relationship while the band were in Brazil for two concerts at the beginning of the year (15th January, Sao Paulo &  22nd January Hollywood Rock Festival). Press at the time stated that Carine was a fan who, with a group of friends, visited the hotel where RHCP would be staying on a number of occasions to plan and prepare to get the attention of their idols by having dinner there and chatting to the waiters to get themselves known. On the day, Carine waited for Kiedis assuming he would have to eat at some time. Her plan worked and they ended up getting together for the rest of his time in the country.

“To welcome the Hollywood Rock 4 groups, the girls invested time and allowance… they went to Maksoud Plaza four times. “We had dinner and chatted with the waiters”… When the groups arrived, they settled into the brasserie hotel dressed to kill …They held the pose for hours, certain that the rocker also eats — sooner or later, they would have to come down from the bedroom. As soon as Kiedis appeared, Carine — on the verge of a nervous breakdown — managed to keep her air of boredom…
From then on, just follow the manual. Carine stayed with Anthony.”

Source: unknown & Google Translate.

(Similar information is also in an online article on Exame)

Madonna 1993

There were rumours in the press that the Anthony Kiedis and Madonna dated with the two being photographed together several times and performing on show together but there was never anything more concrete than that. This is what Blackie had to say in his recent autobiography:

“Anthony followed that up with an appearance on Arsenio Hall’s one-thousandth anniversary show at the Hollywood Bowl, doing a duet of “The Lady is a Tramp” with Madonna. They dressed in identical short black skirts, fishnet stockings with garter belts, devil caps and combat boots. Madonna threw herself at him; they tumbled down and she gave him a good humping. After the show, they had a quiet date at Canter’s on Fairfax.”

‘Lords of the Sunset Strip: An Autobiography’ By Blackie Dammett; page 311.

The Lady is a Tramp


Jaime Rishar 1993 – 1996

Model. (Details are a summary of Scar Tissue; pages 314-352*)
Anthony saw her in a club while with Guy Oseary, and was instantly attracted to her. He saw her again the next day while she was modelling and they all met at a club that evening but Jaime was more interested in her model friends than Anthony. He nearly gave up but seeing that she needed to go home, he called a cab and went with her after she invited him to do so. Their relationship started the next day although Kiedis had to convince her parents that it was OK for her to see him (she was 19 at the time), and to get them to allow Jaime to fly out out for a visit to LA.

The couple didn’t actually live together but saw each other on various trips to their respective homes in LA and NYC and Jaime went out to stay with Kiedis while he was in Hawaii when RHCP went there to work on the album that was to be One Hot Minute.

Meanwhile, following a trip to the dentist when he was given painkillers, Anthony had lapsed and was doing drugs again and trying to hide the fact from Jaime by telling her that he was ill. However, while Christmas shopping Jaime found out the truth when she saw him using (although she had already suspected he was) and confronted him; he persuaded her to stay with him and they went to Michigan for Christmas as planned with Jaime doing most of the driving there while Anthony went cold turkey in the car after his drug supplies ran out.

Anthony was clean for a while before returning to his drug use to celebrate the completion of the lyrics for One Hot Minute. He avoided Jaime and everyone else by hiding into a series of hotels but was eventually tracked down by Jaime and then RHCP guitarist, Dave Navarro, who checked him into rehab in April 1995.

Jaime and Kiedis spent fall & Christmas 1995 together after the RHCP tour had been postponed going back to New York for New Year’s Eve:

A few days after that, I got this epiphany that this period of my life had come to an end and it was time to be single again, to be alone. I looked at Jaime one day and thought, “I’m not in love with her anymore.” For no reason. It was nothing she did… I told Jaime but she didn’t accept it… I went back to L.A., and she came out. There was a lot of crying and ranting and then she packed up her stuff and got back on the red-eye and left.”

Scar Tissue; pages 351-2*


Christina (Unknown)  1996

While touring (and snowbound) in New York City, he met Guy Oseary at the Spy Bar in Soho:

 “Then we saw this girl who was a little tipsy, wearing a bright red dress with some weird 80s Zebra belt accoutrement. She was in her own world by the piano, doing a heartfelt performance to a Bjork song. I thought that took a lot of chutzpah, so I went over and introduced myself. Her name was Christina, and she was a model who had grown up in Idaho but was now living in New York. She had natural orange-red hair and crazy beautiful white skin and huge tits, way too big and pillowy for normal runway modelling. That night I began seeing Christina, which was a good thing, since it had been a while since I felt that connection with somebody. I wasn’t falling in love, but she was a nice person, and we were definitely sexually compatible.”

Scar Tissue; page 354-5*

The relationship lasted a few months with Anthony flying her out to various gigs on the tour; however he ended the relationship just before flying out on a European tour. [Details Scar Tissue; page 358*].


Rachel  (Unknown) 1996

 Another very short relationship. Kiedis was introduced to Rachel by Guy Oseary after a RHCP gig at Wembley; Anthony was so attracted to her that he decided to remain in England for a few days after the concert to get to know her better; it turned out that she had had a relationship with Anthony’s ex Ione Skye:

“I have to tell you that this is so weird, because the very last person I had a sexual relationship with was your ex-girlfriend Ione. And by the way, I liked this experience much better…”

Scar Tissue; page 362*

He stayed with Rachel for a few days before having to return home.


Melanie Chisholm 1998


Unknown magazine clipping

Mel C, better known as Sporty Spice ,from UK pop group the Spice Girls. Anthony and Mel C were rumoured to have been a couple and there was much speculation in the press about the pair;

“I became friendly with Mel C (Sporty), and we stayed in touch for months and months.”

Scar Tissue; page 405*

However, it’s not sure actually how serious the relationship was:

“…and Anthony had a new crush of his own. Flea took Clara to see the Spice Girls at the Forum and they brought Anthony along. He met Sporty Spice Mel C backstage and something akin to lust or love blossomed.”

‘Lords of the Sunset Strip: An Autobiography’

By Blackie Dammett; page 337

However serious or not the relationship was, Mel C was the “English girl” in the song “Emit Remmus” which Anthony wrote after being inspired by their relationship [Scar Tissue; page 405*]

Yohanna Logan/Claire Essex** 1998 – 2002 (with breaks)

**Name used in later editions of Scar Tissue (pages 411- 458*).

“Being with Claire was hard. She was probably the girl I loved most of all my girlfriends, but also the toughest one to make things work out with. If I had put that much effort into any of my other relationships, I’d be married with five kids now.”

Scar Tissue; page 447*


Kiedis met Yohanna Logan met when she was working in the trendy Balthazar Restaurant in New York; he’d gone there for a meal with Guy Oseary and some other friends.

“I walked in and had a huge ‘love at first site’ kind of wallop.”

 Fornication: The Red Hot Chili Peppers Story by Jeff Apter; page 306

Logan refused to see Kiedis that night but they met the next day and spent the day together before Kiedis returned to L.A.  Shortly afterwards it was Anthony’s 36th birthday and Guy Oseary was arranging a party for him. Kiedis wasn’t really interested as he wanted to see Yohanna whom he was now speaking to on the phone several times a day. As a surprise, Oseary flew Logan in especially for the party and she and Anthony spent the weekend together.

Anthony knew she had taken drugs in the past and that she drank heavily from their previous meetings, but he was shocked to find she was still using drugs when he made a surprise visit on her birthday to her place in New York and he saw the track marks on her arms. Although he wasn’t sure if the relationship could continue, he knew he could not leave her either. However, she decided to get clean and when she wanted to return to school, Anthony Kiedis set her up at the Fashion Institute of Technology.

At the beginning the relationship had been a long-distance one necessitated by the fact that Logan was in NYC and Kiedis was in LA but when Yohanna finished school, they decided to move in together and Anthony rented the penthouse of Colonial House near Chateau Marmont in LA (Kiedis had always liked the house and the penthouse had just become available). Yohanna moved to LA in September 1999.

“I loved living in this cool penthouse apartment with her; but it was never smooth sailing. We’d both been such fucking dope fiends for so long that we never had a chance to grow out of our childish behavior. We must have loved the drama and the constant rush of fighting and making up and starting the whole cycle over again. It was crazy.”

Scar Tissue; pages 248-9*

Their relationship had been somewhat tumultuous from the start; they’d got into a massive standoff at a party when she went to stay with Kiedis in December of that first year. In addition, Logan always found it hard to accept the attention that Anthony Kiedis got as a member of the Chili Peppers and it caused a lot of friction between the couple; all added to by the fact that she never seemed satisfied with anything she was given and always wanted more:

 “She was always on edge and discontented about something. I was equally maladjusted to life at that point.”

Scar Tissue; page 429*

However, they stayed together and Kiedis even helped her set up her business and used his contacts to find her buyers:

“Anthony and Yohanna had moved from their Mediterranean West Hollywood penthouse into an old house with lots of personality off Mulholland in a celestial cliff overlooking the clouds. Anthony set her up in business designing clothes, and she had a nifty office and workspace in the quaint home. A loyal boyfriend, he wore her gear* to perform in…”

‘Lords of the Sunset Strip: An Autobiography’ By Blackie Dammett; page 351

*Yohanna’s clothing company was called Shawn

In 2000 the couple were invited to a NBA game in San Francisco and while there, they started to reminisce about using drugs and a plot was soon hatched to see what it was like getting high together; the plan was for it to be just one evening for the experience. During that first binge, Yohanna was so ill that Kiedis ended up phoning 911 (and they had several visits by law enforcement to the hotel room they were staying in as a result) but that wasn’t enough to dissuade them and they carried on with drug taking becoming a major feature of their relationship and while Logan eventually stopped, Kiedis was to continue on and off (e.g. stopping for RHCP commitments) for sometime afterwards.

Later that year (2000),  they met up for New Year at St. Barts but the holiday didn’t go well with the couple pretty much rowing from when they met at the airport. Over the holiday Anthony started to have doubts about the future of the relationship. It all came to a head when she gave him a hard time for talking to some women about a painting and he told her it was over.

Kiedis now concentrated on getting sober; he got a new house and a dog (a present from Guy Oseary), and he then met Cammie (see below) and started a new relationship with her. However, one night, he bumped into Yohanna again and the relationship resumed; Kiedis went straight to Cammie’s place to tell her it was over.

Kiedis and Logan’s relationship would continue in much the same on/off way e.g. there was another Christmas trip to St. Barts (2001) and they got in difficulties while surfing (Yohanna had asked to learn), and she got really angry with Kiedis over it and they broke up again as a result. He would miss Yohanna and get back with her only for things never to work out as he expected:

 “Sometime the next year. I relapsed. I’d keep getting back with her because I missed our friendship, but I always got the same result, never any progress. Four years into our relationship, she was as smoulderingly distraught over the littlest things in life.”

Scar Tissue; page 458*

Eventually the relationship ended for good while Kiedis was writing songs for By The Way and, as a result, a lot of the songs on the album were written by Kiedis in relation to their breakup:

“…and Anthony dedicated “Don’t Forget Me” to me. He had written the poignant ballad for his now ex-love Yohanna, but I loved this song…”

‘Lords of the Sunset Strip: An Autobiography’ By Blackie Dammett; page 361


Cammie (Cameron Richardson**) 2001 (?)

(During a break with Yohanna but added here to save breaking the continuity of the Yohanna account. ** Comment below identifying Cammie as Cameron Richardson)

Anthony went out with Guy Oseary one night and wasn’t looking for love or anything close…

“…and saw this extra-fine girl from across the room. There was a line of guys waiting to talk to her, but I just cut the line, took her away, and sat her down on a couch… Her name was Cammie. She was an actress who lived in a Laurel Canyon house with a Playboy centerfold and Paris Hilton. She was wonderful and beautiful and smart and funny, and she started staying over at my house and became my girl.”

Scar Tissue; page 453*

The relationship with Cammie was very short-lived as about a month later he saw Yohanna (he was due to meet Cammie later in the day for lunch) but he started kissing her and suddenly the relationship was back on. He drove over to Cammie’s house and ended their relationship. [Scar Tissue, page 454*].


 Rota Hans(s) 2002

Not much is known about Rota Hanss/Hans (both spellings have been attached to her photos) except for a few photos of her with Anthony.


 Demi Moore 2002

The two were rumoured to have dated but little more is known about them except they were photographed together a few times:

 The Sun reports Red Hot Chili Peppers frontman Anthony Kiedis is dating Bruce Willis’ ex Demi Moore. She was spotted stage-side at the Chili Peppers gig in LA and the pair arrived arm-in-arm for a Paramount Pictures anniversary bash. A spy revealed, “They spent the night chatting intimately. There was a lot of staring into each other’s eyes. They are obviously very fond of each other but when a camera zoomed in Demi turned away to avoid being seen with Anthony.” Source: Rock Dirt


Ardasha [Adasha?] Benjamin 2002

 Meet Ardasha Benjamin, the RED HOT CHILI PEPPERS’ No. 1 fan. When the band played Ellis Island last week [July 9th, 2002], Benjamin managed to get backstage and remind frontman Anthony Kiedis that they’d once met in Seattle. The next morning, the 18-year-old model/actress from Brooklyn was spotted emerging from the Mercer Hotel on Kiedis’ arm. Her agency, Flutie Entertainment, declined to comment on the relationship.

Source: Blabbermouth

Lola Corwin 2002

Photographed together several times during the autumn of 2002 e.g. at New York fashion week so it was assumed they were dating. Not much is known about the relationship if there was one.


Heidi Klum 2002 – 2003

Super model. Another brief relationship following Klum’s marriage break-up to Ric Pipino. Kiedis and Klum were first spotted a few days after the break-up was announced (Klum and Pipino divorced later that year) in Sydney.

“Anthony meets Heidi Klum, the audacious and outspoken reigning top model in the world, and they fall in love despite her marriage with faltering Ric Pipino. Goodbye Pipino; hello the germane German, the Teutonic wonderbra woman, the Sports Illustrated swimsuit cover girl and the mouth that roared and kissed my son. Welcome to our family.”

‘Lords of the Sunset Strip: An Autobiography’ by Blackie Dammett; pages 358-9


Celesta Hodge 2004

Another model and another short-lived romance.


Heather Christie (2004-5)

Please see below for more details as the couple reunited


Jessica Stam 2005 – 2006

There were speculations that Anthony cheated on Heather with model Jessica Stam who briefly lived with Kiedis following Anthony and Heather’s split.

MODEL-of-the-moment Jessica Stam can stomp on a rival mannequin’s heart just as skillfully as she struts the catwalk.

The Canadian cutie – for whom Marc Jacobs named his new “Stam” bag – caused model Heather Christie to burst into tears when she learned that Stam had started dating Christie’s then-boyfriend, Red Hot Chili Peppers singer Anthony Kiedis.

Christie was inconsolable at an L.A. fashion shoot for Morphine Generation a few months back after she learned that Kiedis was two-timing her.

The 19-year-old Stam and the 43-year-old Kiedis have been spending lots of time together since. Last month, a topless Stam was photographed frolicking with Kiedis on the Caribbean island of St. Barts.

Stam – who walks in tonight’s Jacobs show – traded in her ex-boyfriend Harrison Ford’s son, Malcolm, 18 to date Kiedis, who counts top models Heidi Klum and Jaime Rishar among the notable notches in his belt.

Meanwhile, Christie – sometimes known professionally as “Nika” – has started dating another aficionado of young runway talent, actor/auteur Vincent Gallo.

New York Post, February 6th, 2006


Heather Christie 2004-5 and 2006-2008

Model (often used to model under the name Nika). Kiedis met Heather Christie at a party and they eventually became a couple;

“I saw this beautiful face smiling throughout the night,” he recalls. He said hello, found out she had a boyfriend, but cadged a commitment to have coffee. After some time apart, he and 20-year-old Heather Christie reconnected and began dating, and they are now cohabitating. “On paper there was no reason whatsoever we should have gotten along,” he says of Christie, who on their first date took him on a tour of her hometown of Simi Valley. “But when I hung out with her, I didn’t want to hang out with anybody else.”

Blender March 2007

They were first photographed publicly together in September 2004. Their relationship was not always plain sailing and with the couple temporarily splitting in late 2005 while Kiedis reportedly dated model Jessica Stam. Kiedis and Christie reunited early in 2006 and the following year Heather became pregnant; their son, Everly Bear, was born at the beginning of October 2007. (More detailed information on the family can be seen here: The Bear Clan)

Bear Clan Family shot taken for Malibu Magazine, 2008

Bear Clan Family shot taken for Malibu Magazine, 2008


Heather, who is 24 years younger than Anthony, was the inspiration for the song, ‘She’s Only 18’. Heather is a keen photographer and was RHCP’s photographer for much of the Stadium Arcadium tour.

Laura Prepon 2008

Laura was rumoured to be dating Laura very soon after the split with Heather Christie; the two were spotted together on a couple of occasions e.g. at UFC 86


Laura Freedman (2008)

Laura owns a jewellery store in Santa Monica; the couple were seen together several times.


Beth Jeans Houghton 2011-2012

Beth leaving Paris hotel where RHCP stayed, October 2011. Thanks to Simona Morisi

Autumn 2011 to early 2012; the relationship seems to have been over by the February as Anthony was photographed with another woman.  Beth Jeans Houghton is a British singer-songwriter; at the time she was with Anthony she was performing with ‘The Hooves of Destiny’ but she is now performing solo under the name ‘Du Blonde’. She is also an artist and illustrator and created the video for RHCP’s ‘Sick Love’ single.

Anthony admitted to having a crush on BJH in an interview with British magazine Mojo in December 2011 and the pair had often been spotted together in public before that (she was backstage at the RHCP concert in Bercy, France in October 2011 because I saw her there):

“I have a huge crush on Beth Jeans Houghton. I think she’s a genius.”

Mojo December 2011

Beth Jeans Houghton refused to ever comment on the relationship publicly at the time although she released an album (Welcome Back To Milk), under her new name Du Blonde in May 2015 and one track, ‘After the Show’ was taken by many to refer to her relationship with Kiedis:

 “I would’ve loved you forever, both you and your kid/ And remained faithful even in your old age, long after the last time that you leave the stage./ Cause I loved you for everything, all that you are/ The man sat at home, lonely superstar,/All I wanted was time with your soul, skin to skin/ My best friend, lover, my companion.”


Michelli Provensi 2012

She was seen with Anthony on a number of occasions at the end of December 2012 (around New Year) including backstage at RHCP concerts and on the front row with him at at a UFC 155 in Las Vegas (above):

It seems that Anthony Kiedis, lead singer of Red Hot Chili Peppers, was enchanted by a Brazilian. According to the newspaper Folha de São Paulo on Friday, the singer was seen holding hands with Michelli Provensi model during the New Year’s Eve in Las Vegas, United States. At the time, the Californian group performed and the model followed everything closely.

Ofuxico.com (translated using Google)


Lara Bingle 2013

Source: Lara Bingle Twitter

Lara was photographed with Anthony Kiedis a couple of times leading to some speculation as to whether they were a couple or not especially as one picture showed them gazing adoringly into each other’s eyes… but it was all confused by the fact that Lara was supposed to have been engaged at the time and if a relationship did exist, it was very short-lived:

THERE’S been plenty of rumours doing the rounds about Lara Bingle this past week. Could she have split from long-term boyfriend Gareth Moody or are they getting serious?

Rumours have been flying thick and fast on the Sydney social scene since Bingle posted an Instagram image of herself with visiting US rocker Anthony Kiedis, who is in Australia headlining the Big Day Out, taking a road trip on the NSW south coast… At the same time, paparazzi photographers have been chasing the model to get images of her supposedly wearing an engagement ring given to her by Moody. Bingle, 25, and Moody, a former Ksubi designer who now owns the Chronicles of Never label, began dating a year ago.

January 27th 2013 Daily Telegraph

Helena Vestergaard Early 2013- late 2014 (possibly early 2015)

According to an interview that Helena did for Teen Vogue in August 2013, she met David Mushegain [photographer behind the lens for the RHCP  Fandemonium book] when he was in her home town of Melbourne for the RHCP concert [RHCP played Melbourne on 26th January] and it’s always been assumed that she met the band, and hence Anthony, through him.

Anthony and Helena Vestergaard were first spotted together early in 2013 when the couple were photographed on a Valentine’s date at a LA Lakers game- Helena appeared to fall asleep on Anthony during the game.

The couple were seen regularly together with Helena often accompanying Anthony as he toured with RHCP and they lived together in his Malibu home.

 “I’m not an ageist. You can’t help who you fall in love with,” she told Confidential. “We’re both happy and that’s good.”

International Business Times

Photos of the two together were last published during November 2014. The first photos on 24th November showed Helena being embraced by Anthony and the couple play fighting with Vestergaard looking reticent. A couple of days later more photos showed the pair having a Thanksgiving Day coffee together with Helena looking miserable. She went home to Australia at the beginning of December to celebrate her birthday (according to her Instagram page) and the pair were never seen together again.

Kiedis commented during a radio interview on the break-up during promotion for ‘The Getaway’:

I’m embarrassed to say but yeah, a two-year relationship that completely fell apart like a nuclear bomb just left me feeling pretty raw and available to the emotional universe for writing.

Source: Radio 2 interview with Jo Whiley

Once again, a failed relationship gave Anthony inspiration for writing lyrics for a new album and there are references throughout ‘The Getaway’ that seem to apply to Helena and his relationship with her. The video for the song, ‘Sick Love’ was created by Anthony’s ex girlfriend, Beth Jeans Houghton, and the drawing of the main female character in it is too similar to Helena for it to have been a coincidence. Lots of inferences have been drawn  from the lyrics about what happened to end the relationship but neither Anthony or Helena have ever released details other than the vague comments made by Kiedis in interviews for launch of ‘The Getaway’.

Wanessa Milhommen 2015

Embed from Getty Images

A model from Brazil. Many comments were made about how similar she looked to Anthony Kiedis’s previous girlfriend, Helena Vestergaard- the press had issues telling them apart at first and news stories were published confusing the two.

She first appeared with Kiedis at a fashion show in NYC during fashion week in mid-February 2015 and was seen with him a couple of times after that but the relationship seems to have fizzled out by mid-March 2015 which is the last time they were photographed together.


Marina Garpow 2016

Anthony was seen a few times with Marina Garpow, a Michigan native, between between June and early September 2016. The appear to have met while they were both holidaying in Michigan. They stayed in NYC together at the Bowery Hotel where they were photographed by parapazzi. She also visited him in his Malibu home as well as joining RHCP on tour a few times e.g. Lollapalooza and Budapest. There were several tabloid articles at the time showing photos of her and AK. Marina was backstage with a group of family & friends at RHCP’s 2017 Detroit concert although the relationship seemed to have been over before then.

For everyone commenting on the balcony photos in the comments below:
I can’t add  photos in the comments so will put them here. There seem to be two different  lots of photos taken on the balcony of the Bowery Hotel; the ones Marina posted (the top two which were presumably taken by AK)  and the ones the paparazzi took (the bottom two; one shows AK taking photos) which are taken from a different angle (presumably from the ground looking up).



Katya Bakhirka (2016)

Anthony was seen on a couple of occasions (late-November 2016 to early 2017) with Katya (she was named in an Instagram photo). She was out with the band at the very beginning of their 2017 tour and was photographed with him in January. She was possibly with him in February as she seemed to be in the same places as the band but there were no actual photos of her with AK. She did attend at least one of the band’s Madison Square Garden’s concerts as she posted backstage footage but again there was nothing to actually link her to Kiedis himself and she was probably just a guest. It’s assumed she is a model as there are photos of Katya hanging out with Stella Maxwell from last year (2016) however, there are very few named photos of her online and other people think that she’s a student.

2017 Onwards: Too Young to be My Wife

After Katya, Anthony was captured in several paparazzi photos with a succession of girls but none of them were seen with him frequently e.g. RHCP performed at a surprise concert to support the opening of a Damian Hirst exhibition in Venice and he was seen kissing an unknown girl who was never seen in public with him again (Source: Daily Mail)

August 2017.  Following the concert in Iceland, RHCP were on a break for a number of weeks. Anthony joined his family for a holiday in Michigan. During that time, there were numerous social media reports of sightings and photos of Kiedis with Marina again. One photo showed them in an embrace at her grandfather’s house. However, they have not been seen together since so it seems they just hooked up while he was in MI.

There were a few paparazzi shots at the start of 2018, but nothing since and no sign of a serious relationship.

August 2019. Very quite on the dating front- at least in what’s public. There were paparazzi shots of him with a girl just before the NYC private Coachella East event. The girl was photographed with him at a restaurant  in LA immediately before and then she was in NYC at the same time as the concert, but nothing came to light showing that she hooked up with Anthony again there even though she was in close proximity through a mutual friend.

October 2019: Rock In Rio Anthony was filmed on numerous fan videos with a mystery woman while in Brazil for the Rock in Rio concert. It looks like the same person all weekend although her face wasn’t always clear enough to tell definitely, but her hair looked the same. She also appears to have been with him the last time he was in Brazil. A girl in every port?! Obviously, the comments are flying that she is a Helena Vestergaard lookalike…

Source: RHCP Mexico Fanpage.


Update: Since 2020 From an outside perspective- obviously we don’t know exactly what Anthony is doing and can only go on mostly paparazzi photos- it still looks like there is no steady girlfriend. He wasn’t photographed with anyone for ages over the Covid lockdown era (there were some paparazzi shots of him with his long-term PA out walking near his home and some people mistakenly thought was she was his girlfriend).

Since, heading off on the Unlimited Love tour, more photos of Anthony with young women (ages have often been creeping up to the mid 20s!)  have surfaced both while on tour and also during breaks when back in Malibu. They might be seen with him just once or for several days while in a tour location but nothing comes across as serious and they might just be going for coffee (lol. Euphemisms rule!) rather than it being an actual date e.g. he was spotted by paparazzi with Ukrainian contortionist Marina Mazepa in LA during November, 2022 and this photo was posted by Dave Mushegain while in Australia showing Anthony and Elliott Lauren Ryan.

Source: David Mushegain Instagram

Ryan was definitely around for a couple of concerts because she posted backstage footage from them (Instagram stories and now on a RHCP highlight) but she’s a photographer so might have been just taking photos. She might be a friend, a friend of David…  but people were speculating she was with AK because she, again, looks rather like one of his ex-gfs (Heather Christie). Back to a woman in every port? Again, her Instagram stories show she was backstage at a RHCP concert the last time the band were there too.




NOTE: *’Scar Tissue’ by Anthony Kiedis with Larry Sloman; pages listed are correct according to my edition of Scar Tissue.

283 Responses to A Piece of Aphrodite

  1. Shaun says:

    Excellent article. Must have taken a lot of time and effort to get this completed. On a slightly different note does anyone know if crushgroove.com by James Slovak is still going?

    • admin says:


      I don’t think it is as going to the URL just times out and it’s been like that for ages. However, James Slovak is active on Facebook if you need to contact him. He also sells a lot of memorabilia on eBay and posts the links on his FB page if that’s what you’re interested in and he posts lots of photos, etc. Hope that helps!

  2. Ilenia says:

    I congratulate you for this excellent article, you’re very and always accurate, Rebecca and this is a rare quality to find…thank you for everything (and always sorry for my English!).

  3. Tina says:

    Great job, I believe that you put many hours into this article and what a resume. Your dedication and time/effort is worth rewards! Having said that, there are 2 that haven’t been added just in case this is an ongoing article. Thanks again. Most of the time people need confirmation.

    • admin says:

      Thank you! Which two have I missed out? Any info appreciated! I know there was a blonde woman he was seen with recently- photos on a beach- and also there was the girl he was seen hugging outside a cafe, but as the so far seem just one offs and there’s no name. details, etc. I left them out for now. Are a couple of casual mentions in Scar Tissue too but again nothing other than a name/that he saw someone for a couple of days.

  4. Jess says:

    Wow this is incredibly comprehensive :O thank you!

    Still don’t understand why he goes for women more than half his age… Although I did think he and Helena were cute together. I guess if they’d stayed together we wouldn’t have those great songs on The Getaway!

  5. Mark says:

    I saw RHCP last night in Manchester, UK, and was close to the side of the stage, Anthony definitely had a girl with him. She got ushered with a torch to the side of the stage with the band, and was dancing on her own throughout. She then switched sides towards the end to where the technical crew were stationed and was dancing on her own around the whole area. Then when Anthony went off stage for the encore he shared a long hug & kiss with her, so potentially he’s still with the latest ‘Marina Garpow’, or maybe he has a new girlfriend?

  6. Jane says:

    Does anyone know how Anthony met Marina?

    • admin says:

      On holiday in Michigan I assume. He was on his holiday with his family there and she was staying in the same place according to her Instragram photos and other social media posts.

      • Lisa says:

        Since he was seen with the new blonde, it is safe to say it is over. Marina posts a great deal on her Twitter account. She creeps me out.

        • admin says:

          Thanks! The paparazzi have been posting pics of the blonde girl for a while but we only worked out who she was this week- a couple of days before DM’s photo. Someone saw a photo of Stella Maxwell with her from last year and realised it was the same person,

    • Anonymous says:

      Marina was a waitress in South Haven, MI & Anthony went to that restaurant to eat. Marina was his waitress.

  7. D. says:

    I don’t think there’s anything ‘creepy’ about Marina’s twitter. She’s a 21 year old girl. I’d say her tweets are typical of someone that age.

    • Lisa says:

      Actually Marina has cleaned up her page a great deal. Her cover photo was a picture of herself and AK until quite recently. During the time she hooked up with him she was posting things like, “I’d snort a line off your dick man” and “you had a small dick but I was still down for you”. So okay, she would snort a line off of a recovered addict’s dick? Recently she posted a picture of herself on IG quoting song lyrics. Seems kind of strange unless she doesn’t know he’s moved on.

      • D. says:

        Yeah, that stuff is immature, I agree. My guess is that they kind of broke thing off but were probably on and off again with their communication. I’ll chalk it up to how young she is…

      • Jane says:

        Wait did she really use a paparazzi picture of the two of them as her cover photo????

        • Malina says:

          I think they are just in some kind of an open relationship. They seem to be meeting here and there, whenever they have time but it’s nothing serious.
          I hate to say that but in comparison to his other your girlfriends, she seems to be very immature, naive and just… I dont even know how to name that. 🙂 She seems to be over the moon that she has a thing with him, judging by her social media posts. But what do they have in common? What does he see in her?

      • admin says:

        There were paparazzi photos but they were from the street below and in some of them it looked like AK was taking photos of Marina with his phone. I assume she was using one of those photos as it was from a completely different viewpoint- level and not from the street below.

        AK has recently been seen several times with someone called Katya (paparazzi photos) and she went out on tour with him at the beginning of the leg that has just finished. One of the last pics showed them holding hands but little more is known. I’m assuming Marina is history (I didn’t post about her while it was clearly current).

  8. Lisa says:

    I am pretty sure it was a paparazzi picture of the two of them on the rooftop in NYC.
    I would say age and the fact she is not his usual model hookup. Models always date famous guys where random girls do not.

    • admin says:

      There were paparazzi photos but they were from the street below and in some of them it looked like AK was taking photos of Marina with his phone as she sat on the wall of the balcony. I assume she was using one of the photos AK took as it was from a completely different viewpoint- level and not from the street below but they are clearly from the same time.

      • Lisa says:

        Marina has pictures of herself posted backstage at the Detroit show on IG. So not history or he ended on good terms with her. Also the picture she used for her Twitter cover photo was definitely a paparazzi picture. Anthony Kiedis and herself sitting on the rooftop in NYC. But she has changed the picture.

  9. D. says:

    Exactly. It was probably hard for her when he moved on (I would guess) since she is just an average girl who’s not in the industry and not used to this kind of thing.

  10. raspberry says:

    She is blonde now guys!!! Marina is blonde!

  11. admin says:


    For everyone commenting on the ‘balcony’ photos, I’ve updated the post on Marina with them to show the different photos.

    I’ve also added an entry on Katya.

  12. Malina says:

    There’s also this cute mystery girl that was with him in Prague in September 2016:


    He just can’t stop!!!!

    • admin says:

      He was seen with her a couple of times but we never found out a name or any details.

    • Lisa says:

      He basically did the same thing between Heather and Beth and Beth and Helena. The man went through quite a few girls between Beth and Helena. I think it is hard for him to find a decent person, one that wants him for more than his fame.

  13. Malina says:

    Katja is currently in Brasil with Yuri Kozyrev, a Russian photographer, working on a documentary about the jungle and how the tribes use the plants/herbs. That would explain that IMDb entry I guess. She is Ukrainian.

    And Anthony is a ladies man, we all know that. He probably dates several girls at the same time and it’s normal for all of them… 😉

    • Anat says:

      I saw Anthony and Katya in New Orleans together

      • Lisa says:

        New Orleans was on January 10th and Marina was with him on Feb 2nd.

        • Malina says:

          I guess he just “dates” several girls at the same time… open relationships? Friends with benefits? He keeps them all close and somehow they don’t mind he’s seeing others.

          He’s been seen with Katya several times, November 2016 etc. Wanessa was backstage at the RHCP concert in london in December 2016. He’s been seen with that dark haired woman in Switzerland – RHCP played there on October 5th.

          • D. says:

            Agreed. It is sad. Because of his status, he knows he can get away with dating several girls at once and they’ll accept it. Unfortunately there are many men who behave that way in the entertainment industry. I’m not sure if he’s looking for anything serious. I’m not against couples with age gaps, but he consistently dates women who are 20, 21, 22…Probably not going to turn into anything long term for him. I’m sure there are commitment issues and many other issues there.

        • Lisa says:

          They probably do mind but just accept the situation. No woman wants to be one of many.

          • Malina says:

            It’s sad!!

          • Lisa says:

            Definitely sad for the women. Wanessa was also backstage at a show this summer and posted a picture of herself with Flea. She also posted a meme that said if your ex has not been happy with anyone else since you, you are are not the issue. Great point even though she may not have meant AK specifically. Helena looked very happy with Ryan Ross and now with the surfer guy. AK is probably a difficult person and all of his women always look unhappy.

        • Jenn says:

          Where was he seen with Marina in Feb?

          His relationship with her does creep me out. Its not so much the age difference as how publicly she talks/posts about it. Again, like a 21yr old girl.

          • Malina says:

            She seems to be a regular immature old from mid west, not his regular model girl. It is kinda strange

          • Kensie says:

            He wasn’t actually seen/photographed with her. She has pictures backstage with her friends at the Detriot show posted on her IG with a RHCP tag included. A friend in touch with her said AK is still in contact with her and gave her the tickets. I think she was just overwhelmed to be with a man like him even if ir was for a short time.

  14. Malina says:

    Helena Has just announced her pregnancy,it’s no longer Anthony-related (directly) but she was/is my favourite girl he has ever dated so I thought it’s worth a mention here.

  15. Ivy says:

    Truly sad. His search for THE ONE will never end as he fills the insatiable hole of his Soul. He needs to truly love himself while being alone for more than a week. True Love cannot be found in another first. One must fall in love with self first.
    I have loved this man for 28 years. Models are not the only Goddesses on the planet but I don’t think he got that memo.

    • Kensie says:

      He has said in interviews that no one will give him a chance because of his past, the things he wrote in Scar Tissue. Valid point, he needs to love himself first. There was a random picture of him with a porn star after he broke up with Helena. It was said on one of the fan forums that his mom commented that there are other women in the world other than models. Most models are told by their agencies to get a high profile boyfriend for promotion. This is probably the end game for most of them. He needs a significant other not looking for fame but just happy to be with him.

      • I love that his Mom said that!
        I also have thought for some time now that maybe just maybe the girls are a Publicity Pump. For them mostly but it’s gravy for him. He sings in Go Robot “Robots don’t know where I’ve been”. I take that to mean no one wants to have sex with him bc of his TOO MANY partners so he has succumb to ‘robots’ ir those that don’t care.
        Listen, I met him in 2015. It was my dream come true and a gift from God ( My Scorpio Musician Dad died unexpectedly 2 mos later). Here’s what I saw: This man had so much fear in his eyes, really deep fear. It shocked me. His hug was divine but I feel that the Hollywood Matrix has him. Totally sucked his soul. Where is the beautiful real Anthony I fell in love with all those years ago. My beautiful Native American, long hair and clean shaven gorgeous man.
        Botox??? Good God, how can he do that being a Vegan/vegetarian caring about his health and using the oxygen therapy when botox comes from mold?! I just wanted to scoop him up and make him feel all better.I feel bad for him. He got lost in the drugs and the Hollywood craze. I know everyone loves Blackie but Anthony’s Dad is what shaped him today. His emotional growth got stunted at the age he first had sex with that 18 yr old when he was what 12? So he’s on an emotional loop dating the youngest girls he can find-stuck bc his childhood was stolen. Its quite sad. I pray for this man everyday. Incidentally, I do know that deep down in his truest soul he Loves the Goddess of Woman and respects and reveres her. I have dreamt about this many times. He visits me at least once a month in my dreams. And my latest one was just about that! It was like this- ” A naked girl dancing in his show and he went to put his hands up to touch her body but stopped with his hands in her aura and just honored her” .
        If he wants to find true love he MUST look within to find what he really feels to find what he wants and needs. I feel he needs to Love himself, really love himself before he goes chasing another baby skirt. He is “too much of the world” and needs to face his fear of truly looking within at himself and just do it! He also needs a good Spiritual Therapist to help heal his soul. A good Shaman to do a Soul Retrieval I’d say.

  16. The few words Kiedis says in the below 2016 interview isn’t much, but he does give a reason for dating younger women. Its translated from German but basically says a woman in her 20s is like a makeover for a man his age….


  17. Jasmine says:

    Attention attention… this is not a drill!
    Anthony has been spotted in Italy with another young skinny brunette.

    Is it just me or have all his girlfriends as of late looked incredibly similar?


    Still love my A.K though ❤❤

  18. Kyli says:

    That Marina chick is a total creeper. How in the word did she hook up with him? I saw her social site post, and she literally looks like she just turned 15. Which is super creepy. Plus her other pics look as if she was once a big girl but has since lost the weight through nefarious means. I mean the stuff I read she was postinb about “sniffing coke…” Like he needs anyone at that level, she just seems too overwhelmed by the whole world he lives in.

    • JN says:

      She’s a younger girl posting and acting exactly how a 21yr old from a small town would. I love RHCP but who’s the real creeper here??

      I’m sure he got off on being with a pretty youngin who he could excite by taking her to NYC And other cities she’s never been to.

      The coke post seemed to be a lyric or quote she tweeted to her friend. I am not friends with her but have talked with her and she’s very sweet.

  19. Lisakins says:

    Marina Garpow was seen in Florida with him this week

  20. Lisakins says:

    No pics, I know someone who knows him and she was w him in St Augustine FL yesterday

    • D. says:

      You’re right! Someone on Marina’s IG just commented on a pic of hers saying they saw her in St Augustine but were too shy to go say hello! Anthony obviously likes her a lot.

  21. Corinna says:

    Do not get me wrong. I love the RHCP and AK..
    But to be honest .. he is a middle aged man where teenager dates. Every week another… Sorry but this is very sick and has nothing to do with rock star status. He seems to have a rather disturbed image of women and of relationships.
    And I can not imagine that Everly is his only child. Probably the only thing the public knows .. probably he does not even know how many children he actually has …

  22. D. says:

    I’m really nosey, so I follow Marina and this Venice girl (@wanderingstarz) on IG. Venice girl’s latest post is liked by Marina!

    • D. says:

      And Marina’s latest IG post has Venice girl commenting ‘hello pretty!’. They clearly don’t feel any competition for one another.

      • JN says:

        Oh now this IS getting interesting! Lol

      • Gina says:

        Since all of this was posted, Marina set her Twitter now to private. Also in reference to the Florida shows, Anthony had a Miami model backstage with him named Dominica that went by dominicavs on IG. I think her account was deactivated but talked about the good vibes she had with AK. The fan IG Nobody Weird Like Kiedis still has the pic up. AK did the same thing after Heather, after Beth. He’ll keep on playing the field ubtil ge finds a girl that he wants to date. I think Marina just wants to keep him around by agreeing to the FWB thing. One of her IG pics, she is holding a sign that says still single before a friend’s wedding, so she may not be as comfortable with the situation as she lets on.

    • JN says:

      Whats ur IG? lets follow each other 😉 im jenn_nooch

  23. melissa says:

    Im super nosey too, it blows my mind that AK is dating so many girls at the same time. Is he a kind of sugar daddy to them?
    And they all look alike. Slim, young, dark hair.
    Marina is just a naive, star struck Midwest girl. 😉

  24. Lisakins says:

    Venice girl just posted a photo of what looks like florida!!!

  25. Liz09 says:

    Venice girl also made a comment on Marina’s IG saying she is pretty and saw why Anthony picked her to one of them. What does that mean “one of them” lol.

  26. D. says:

    I found the comment from Venice girl Liz was talking about. It’s the pic on Marina’s IG where she’s sitting on the edge of the balcony of the Bowery Hotel. This is what the comment says: ‘You are so naturally beautiful. No wonder Tony chose you as one of us…one of his many soulmates’.
    I’m officially disturbed by this now. It sounds like a cult. Is he telling these young girls they’re one of his many soul mates he has? Thats’ SO manipulative. I probably would’ve believed him when I was their age too – but I don’t like this…

    • Mellissa says:

      Its disturbing. I Actually dont know what to think of this.

      Maybe the Venice girl was just trying to tease Marina?

    • Corinna says:

      Oh my God – this is so sick… There it is as in a harem. Worse is that these girls are so young and naive that they seem to believe this crap and rock star glamor and fame are blinded and do not realize that he just wants to satisfy his selfish needs. Or he believes in the end of this crap even …? If so, a psychotherpie would not be the worst … How disturbed can you be? Sorry AK but so slowly I lose more and more respect and respect for you.

      • D. says:

        Agreed. I also find it interesting how he’s gone from dating women who are well known – not necessarily super famous, but in the public eye – to dating women who are unknown. I wonder if he’s gained a reputation among the more well-known models?

        • Mellissa says:

          Exactly! He is now dating almost anonymous girls only. Your comparison to a harem is perfect Corinna.
          I’m very intrigued and curious what they think about it all, about each other, does he tell them that he has other girls – “soulmates”? :p how does this even work?!
          I imagine that this system might not be ideal for many girls – how many of them passed and didn’t agree on being one of his dozens of ladies?

          • D. says:

            He’s probably become good at zero-ing in on which personality types would put up this being one of his several ‘soul mates’.

        • Corinna says:

          Yes, you are right and I wonder where he always gets to know? Does the model agency look for the model? I would not be so bizarre if the mature women were 30 years or older … but these are not women who are naive teens … Please do not misunderstand me. I have nothing against teenagers. But it is a huge difference whether one is 20 or 30 years old.

  27. JN says:

    Im at the Miami show and he just got off stage before the encore. There was a chick on side of stage he grabbed and threw over his shoulders before going backstage. Def not marina

  28. Tony's Girl says:

    They are all starting to look alike. Interchangeable, since he broke up with that one model (Helena) a few years back, he has been chasing the same look but nothing quite as good as the original. His one groupie from last summer looked like she came straight from the trailer park. Some chick from Michigan, who has a stage mom that probably pushed her into his arms. It was creepy because she posted about it like some high school girl on Instagram. Her brush with fame…

    • JN says:

      Yes, Marina….we’re over her already lol. She still sees him. Stage mom?

    • JN says:

      I wanna know more about the stage mom comment! Lol

    • Kyli says:

      I love when my past comments are copied and pasted. See above^ anyways, her mom is a total stage mom. I have heard her mother is the one who stalked where he would be vacationing thus bringing her daughter to the spot in MI. She is the one that has pushed her daughter to purse a old man with money. Again, there has been chatter with the mother stating such awful things like “well she will be rich when he is dead”. Her mother is a leech and stupid as well. I guess she hasn’t done her homework because once her meal ticket hits 23 she will be old news. On the otherside, AK has become a class A pervery type who hangs at the high school school yard. The man needs to stop dating girls young enough to date his son. I am being facetious but surely his vibe must be so creepy. Plus his looks have hit spiral. I saw some footage of him from 10 years ago and he looked amazing. He looks diseased now days.

      • JN says:

        He met Marina bc he went into the restaurant or whatever where she was waitressing.

      • Corinna says:

        This is all so sad and unintelligible … and this marina chick with her mother seems to be just totally stupid.
        What is going on in AK and why he is so behave you do not know. Whilst I am not sure whether he is serious about what he is doing and says. I recently read an interview where he said that he is not doing power training but just jogging and surfing and holding nothing from body cult … Does he really mean we’re stupid? His muscles do not grow overnight and why does he always run half-naked in the area if this is not important? I have also read that he regularly does botox.
        I honestly do not find that he looks sick, rather old … but also because of this impossible moustache. I found him the hottest in 2002.

  29. JN says:

    I couldnt tell but she had long, wavy, sandy blondish hair

  30. D. says:

    That’s exactly what marina’s hair is like now. Are you sure it wasn’t her? Matches her latest look!

    • Tony's Girl says:

      Marina was with him in Jacksonville, the Venice girl was at the Miami concert – 100%.

    • Tony's Girl says:

      I also kinda wondered about the Venice girl – she seems to be holding a new model of an iPhone in the pap photos and the pics she posts on Instagram are very low quality. None of her friends or family members seem to be commenting on her pics, isn”t that strange?

      • D. says:

        100% strange. Also, the comment she’s making on marina’s IG are odd.

        • Tony's Girl says:

          Also – on the photos posted on her account, she has black nails and rings on her fingers etc. On the paparazzi photos she has bare hands, no jewelry, no nail polish!
          What a detective I am…
          My guess also – FAKE

  31. JN says:

    100% positive….ive asked multiple “sources” and shes not with him rite now. Im like a detective! lol

  32. admin says:

    Hi girls!

    Are you sure it was a girl? He’s not known for picking up girls at the end of a concert like that… but he does pick up his son. Could someone have mistaken EB for a girl? He does have very long hair.

    As for the WanderingStarz account… My gut feeling is that it’s fake.

    • D. says:

      Coincidentally, wanderingstarz made her account private. One thing I did notice, now that you’ve mentioned it could be fake, is that on her IG, her eyes are greenish blue, but in her pap photos they look brown to me.

  33. JN says:

    Youre right, it absolutely couldve been Everly. I was very close on side of stage but was just coming back down to my seat when i noticed. Hair color was definitely the same color as Everly, it just looked like it was styled like a chick.

  34. JN says:

    Of course its ok! Feel free to follow 😊

  35. D. says:

    Ok wow admin. You just blew my mind and I totally agree with you! It’s starting to make sense now. She never shows her face, doesn’t be have consistent normal friends who comment or like her photos the way Marina does. So it very well could be fake. Good call on it being Everly backstage as well!

  36. JN says:

    Well then, back to work on who Venice girl is!! Haha…how do u know she was with him for sure in Miami?

  37. admin says:

    RE: Wanderingstarz My main collaborator in crime on all things AK, spotted the different eye colours immediately that we became aware of the account whereas I thought it was fake as it all seemed to be memes, etc. and then suddenly that morphed into Venice Girl almost overnight. Troll alert was sounding! haha I was even more convinced by the pic she posted of a girl with her back to the camera at Venice giving the impression it was her and that she was there as the hair colour was different and the clothing styles didn’t seem to match with those in the VG paparazzi pics. I thought she’d taken a random pic of someone at Venice and used it to pretend she was there. Coincidentally the photo WStarz posted of Florida (the aerial shot of the pool) can be found elsewhere too – identical photo and the other one my friend found was older. Now she’s made her account private I’m even more convinced it is fake.

    As for her comments to Marina; they were really creepy.

    • Tony's Girl says:

      The comments – creepy indeed – which also makes me think it was a provocation.

      • D. says:

        Which is super mean. I’m actually relieved it’s fake. Also, how much this entire situation entertains me it’s bordering on ridiculous now haha. I love how we’re all becoming detective on this…

    • Gina says:

      Someone told Marina the account was fake but Marina still follows it. I also think it’s a fake. Concert pics she could have snagged from Goigle. The only pics of herself are paparazzi pics.

  38. Corinna says:

    You are entertaining and successful detectives … haha. But it is nevertheless that he is several teenagers datet.Und with the “Soulmates” I trust him. Everything very dubious …

  39. JN says:

    Oops D, I may have just blocked then unblocked u by accident….

    • admin says:

      I didn’t notice!

      And we’ve only just said hi! That normally doesn’t happen until the first week is over 😛 (I’m Squitherwitch; you liked my cushions – that sounds so weird hehe)

  40. Anonymous says:

    I’m just gonna throw this out there….it’s possible he’s not sleeping with this girls. That possibly in a ironic sense he’s helping them become known. Funny he says he doesn’t like “groupies” yet sets out to hang with young women who he doesn’t have to connect on a deeper level with. Fear of heartache?

    • Anonymous says:


      • D. says:

        My theory is that he is sleeping with them and it’s an addiction of sorts. He’s admittedly sober, so he has an addictive personality – probably always looking for a high. If he can’t get that anymore through subtances, it can fulfilled through sleeping with different young girls in short bursts. The rush and endorphins of a new ‘relationship’ is similar to drinking or being on drugs…

        • Anonymous says:

          Free love

        • Corinna says:

          I agree with you. I’m pretty sure he’s sleeping with all those girls. As you said, he’s an ex-junkie and they’re looking for when they’re clean after a “spare”. I’ve seen a documentary about an ex-junkie some time ago. He was middle 50 and clean for 25 years. He said that one can never forget the “high” and then tries to get his feeling through other things. And that almost only works by extreme sports or by extremely much sex.
          And the fact that the girls are all so young is due to the fact that AK has got it from his own father, maybe he does not even want to grow up. Maybe he has a problem with his age ?? Apart from that you can only very young girls this “Soulmate” crap telling .. or is I wrong?

          • Mimi says:

            This is really just an amazing amount of info. It is kind of sad to read. I am “older” haha…or shall I say, mature-ish. The whole age thing is really blatant when you see, or read it like this. I am not embarrassed to admit that I have taken part in this kind of relationship behavior. As a younger woman, and older. As much as I have loved the other person, it eventually just had to end. Issues, whether they are control, or commitment, filling that emptiness inside…taking hostages. Doesn’t matter if you’re famous. Sometimes it might be good to just be alone and take a good hard look at yourself. I’m sure he knows that. He’s not a stupid man.

  41. Girlonomys says:

    I recently read AK saying “I only have sex when I’m in love.” For me I fall in love super easily then I realize what the F am I doing. I’m sure he’s had that epiphany quite a few times. He has seemed to really love Helena. Hoping he finds the girl …than we can all move a little jelly he met his soulmate!

  42. Corinna says:

    “RHCP news” has posted on Twitter a picture where AK is wearing a shirt with the strap “Straya cunt” … how evil is that .. poor Helena.

  43. D. says:

    What does ‘straya cunt’ mean? Apparently I’m not on top of the latest lingo haha.

  44. Corinna says:

    Yes,exactly.Slang word for Aussie…..

  45. D. says:

    Well, if it’s directed at Helena (which, you’re right, Corinna, it prob is) that’s rude and immature.

  46. Lilija says:

    It looks like Marina is at the recent grand rapids concert. I wonder if they’re still together? Interesting.

  47. JN says:

    They’re definitely still in touch. Wether it’s romantic or not, idk.

  48. D. says:

    Yeah I noticed that on her IG. She looked pretty in the pic she posted – I liked her outfit. I’m wondering if they’re still romantic or not…

  49. Anon says:

    Also wonder who Paul is, she mentions him a few times on Twitter if u look at the astonishing month or so.

  50. Anon says:

    Look at the past month* not astonishing where the hell did that word come from lol

  51. Liz says:

    I really don’t think he and Marina are a couple. It looks like they are just friends.

  52. admin says:

    Liz I agree with you. Ex-gfs appearing backstage at concerts seems to be the in-thing now! There has been no sighting of Marina and AK for ages and he has been seen with other girls since. I think he’s maybe moved on and she hasn’t yet. I really don’t think he and Marina are an item; maybe friends with benefits but not an item.

    • Girl says:

      He makes me crazy haha always a disappointment when I see him smooching someone like a song says just waiting on a coincidence … now if I were only a knockout and like 8 inches taller 15 years younger I’d have a shot haha I need a boyfriend to kill my fascination/obsession

  53. JN says:

    He flew her to see him out of state 2 months ago so he’s keeping whatever this is between them alive too. I wonder if he flies other chicks to see him here and there…. I’ve met Marina, she’s a very nice girl (you can see her age by the way she speaks/acts, though she’s not immature)…I flat out asked if it makes her crazy when she sees him pictured with other girls and she said if she “let that bother her they wouldn’t have the ‘friendship’ they do.”

  54. D. says:

    JN, how did Marina look in person compared to pics of her?

    Also, Marina is more laid back than I would be. I wouldn’t be able to handle someone I was romantically involved with being with several other girls.

    Good for her though. If she’s ok with the arrangement, then she should have fun, she’s young!

  55. JN says:

    She looks like she does in her IG pics. It’s funny the pap photos she’s in with Anthony make her look taller and model like….probably bc he’s small lol

  56. JN says:

    It’s been a while since we’ve had a new AK + female sighting! Lol…

  57. Makeme says:

    That wanderingstarz girl from instagram posted a photo of Anthony from RHCP concert!

  58. Star says:

    It’s weird how he’s gone from dating really famous women to dating these almost unknown girls… kind of creepy too, considering the power imbalance there. But then again these girls could be using him or it could be for another reason! If that’s the case then poor Anthony…

    • D. says:

      My guess is that he’s developed a reputation (prob for being a womanizer) among famous women, so maybe they don’t want to date him? Also, I think he’s addicted to dating very young women, so the best way he can keep doing that is to date young unknown women who idolize him.

      • Girlnonymous says:

        It may be easier to not get hurt and feel like he’s helping them in some way by dating or just an extra friendly relationship. Remember being young and everything was just a tad easier and care free. Its likely just more fun than the girls that have begun adulting like say 30 yo ++ haha 😉

  59. Liz09 says:

    How does he hang out with these girls when he is son is with him all time. Does he never stay at home with his Mom or does Anthony have full custody?

    • Girlnonymous says:

      I don’t think that is anyone’s business. When it comes to kids custodial arrangements etc that’s is off the table.

      • Liz09 says:

        I do agree with you and I wasn’t trying to be rude in anyway. It looks like Anthony is wonderful father and I see nothing wrong taking him all over the world with him.

        • Girlnonymous says:

          Totally girl seems like he’s making tons of lifetime memories for the kiddo! I just think sometimes we can let curiousity get the best of us and I suck at sugar coating words sorry 😇

  60. Corinna says:

    I’ve read somewhere that they share custody and Everly sees his mom on a regular basis. What also amazes me is that he takes him permanently on tour. Whether this is the right thing for a boy in his age, constantly jetting around the world, I also doubt …
    Unfortunately, you can not find anything on the Internet about Heather for a few months. Last year, she had a public Instagram profile where she also posted pictures of Everly and herself. The last thing I knew is that she has worked in a restaurant named “Amara Kitchen” in L.A. There were always pictures of her on the homepage. Also with Everly and she is apparently friends with Beth Jeans Houghton. Last year, she worked as a pole dancer in a strip bar named “Jumbo’s Clown Room” in L.A under the pseudonym “Alabama”. There were also pictures of her. But there she apparently is no longer. Would be genuinely curious, what has become of her ….

    • admin says:

      She gave up the stripper work after settling down with a new partner. She has since got married to him and they relocated to another part of the U.S. She closed that Instagram account just after moving. She still sees Everly but I assume distance is an issue to it being regular contact.

  61. Corinna says:

    Oh that’s very intresting..didn’t know that. Good to hear that she is happy now and found the right one.Thanks for the info!

    • admin says:


      In case you didn’t know, that account isn’t really Heather’s (she had one in the past with the same/similar name)- it was someone taking things off Heather’s Beebopaloowop (?) account and copying them complete with captions but you can see the guy on it. There are photos of them in Sweden together and she gave up the Jumbo’s work about the same time if I remember correctly; I am presuming it’s connected to her relationship (can’t see most guys being happy with that line of work!). As for the rest, there is stuff online e.g. friends posted photos of the wedding on IG but I don’t think it’s fair to give out details.

      • Makeme says:

        Hi admin!
        Did they get married in May last year?
        I’d love to see her in a wedding dress 💕

        • admin says:

          I honestly can’t remember exactly when it was. I was sent links to some photos on a social media site but didn’t keep them as they weren’t relevant to his site as such. She looked really happy 🙂

  62. Corinna says:

    Thanks again for the information. It’s rwally great that she is happy now. I wish her all the best!

  63. BN says:

    I Know Marina Garpow and AK was just at her birthday party. Her mother said if he died at least she’d be rich! Pitiful…..

  64. JN says:

    Yep, there’s a pic of them together on her fb. Her mom sounds like an idiot. Lol

  65. JN says:

    I’m sure he’s very into her or he wouldn’t spend time with her sporadically and it’s been over a year. Think about how many times hes taken her places with him and that he spent time with her on multiple days while he was in Michigan with his family and son.

    What is really love to know is where’d that info about her mom saying that come from! Haha…..not funny, it’s scary.

  66. Corinna says:

    What the hell .. how old is it ??? Not older than 20, right? And AK was on her birthday party with her teenage friends? This is all so diagonal and surreal. What the hell is her mother talking about? They are all crazy …

    • JN says:

      Lmfaooooo…..to be fair she’s in her early 20s so not far off from his relationship with Helena and her buddies.. I guess.

      This still all makes him less desirable to me. He was always my Rockstar dream not only bc I found him hot but watching him perform made him even Sevier. Always loved the music first anyway.

      • Corinna says:

        Anthony is hot and I’ve always admired him. Especially in interviews, he always looks so educated and reflected. I love his music otherwise I would not be a fan.
        But these young girls everywhere, each week a different one and this Soulmate shit throws a completely different picture on him. This is really disturbed and something is wrong with him. This behavior I can not really admire but just pitiful. Surely it is due to his childhood and his father. I feel more and more like he is living his father’s life. Maybe he also wants something different, but can not … who knows ….
        If someone intresses. Helena became a mom of a girl a few days ago. She posted it on her Instagram page.

  67. JN says:

    Sexier*! Stupid phone

  68. Liz09h says:

    well this little thread has gotten interesting. I for the life of me can’t figure why a man of his age would hang around with young ladies. What do they talk about lmao?! He seems so intelligent and worldly. I am in my 30s and have friends of all ages but geez

  69. Nikiluvlee says:

    My theory is he can so he does. Any man I’ve ever been around would take a younger woman for fun that’s sex or sex. Now on an emotional level I’m sure he just doesn’t know how to connect except through words and music. So it’s easier to go for the younger ones. When I was in my early 20s I was less likely to call a dude out on their bullshit. I just didn’t want drama so now I’m in my mid 30s and have resorted to staying single because I will call someone out and I don’t want drama haha

    • admin says:

      Girls are easier to control? He’s man who has lived and he won’t find a long-term partner (if he wants one that is), until he realises that and goes for someone older who understands his experiences, is at a similar stage in life and wants to settle down (not party and have fun) and understands the demands of raising kids, etc.

      And, it takes a real man to handle a woman hahahaa

      • Nikiluvlee says:

        There is an aspect of him feeling invincible I’m sure, he gets what ever he wants. I’m sure in his stature as much as he wants to normalize life being with a young person I suspect offers him an opportunity to help things feel new. As possibly they aren’t jaded by the limelight or keen to take advantage of him. Maybe a control factor who knows but who cares…Again because he can. I have so many guy friends in there 40s and 50s that are just horn dogs you add rock star status where does it end hahaha. I know he just has an image of a teenager from 20 years ago in the middle of the ocean that sent him a smile and a wave that he’s still searching for, and hasn’t found me yet 🙂

  70. Corinna says:

    You are both right. He certainly has a problem with his age and certainly he thinks when he surrounds himself with young people. Unfortunately, it seems ridiculous .. I could never imagine me surrounded with teenagers … this has not been anything to do with my life for a long time.
    The young people deal with him only because of his status, not because they want him as a human being. This is very sad.
    I think he just is not able to get rid of this behavior. He will never find the right partner. This is really sad for him. In addition, it seems to me as if he would always end the relationship even if it becomes too “near” or “binding”. But admin as you said … the worlds between AK and the young girls are so big and young girls are easier to control and manipulate. With 20 just missing the life experience.

    • admin says:

      Those come and go girls I think are using him (if he isn’t using them). Wannabe model? Hang on the arm of a rock star to get noticed. Sorry I’m cynical hehehe

  71. Nikiluvlee says:

    💔 I think each of us get a bit heartbroken for him because we want him to be with a good woman. Right? We all hear his love and then we see where he’s investing it. Here’s to everyone being happy for each other xx

  72. D. says:

    Wow, all of the recent comments were really well put and I agree with all of it!

  73. JN says:

    I wonder why he and Helene actually split

    • admin says:

      There’s been nothing said about it. If The Getaway lyrics are to be believed it seems another man was involved but what really happened, no idea.

    • Nikiluvlee says:

      I think it’s possible she may have wanted to spend more time maybe in Australia. In His song ” LA screaming you’re my home”.. as it seems she quickly moved back. I can tell you it jumpstarted my renewed obsession since because about the time they broke up I had left my ex husband a few weeks before in early November ’14 I’m like perfect haha 😂 yah…”they say I’m a dreamer but I’m not the only one”….all in fun

  74. Corinna says:

    I do not know, I have only guesswork .. I found that she looked especially miserable and very unhappy at the end of the relationship on all the photos. And I honestly find that she often looked unhappy, even before. According to the Getaway lyrics, there is the place “you don’t have to keep it if it’s mine”. Sounds like an abortion?
    She is now together with some Australian surfer, who is already in the beginning of 40th. According to her Instagram Story, she seems to be very happy with him. I find, she was so happy she was never seen with AK…
    She’s got a baby now.
    Well, we’ll probably never know the really reasons for the break up. I wish her only the best.

    • admin says:

      She did look really unhappy in the last couple of lots of paparazzi photos – especially the last ones on Thanksgiving. I think she missed her friends and family in Australia too.

      She seems so happy now and her baby girl is beautiful. She never looks as happy in any of the photos I saw of her in LA than she does now. Wishing her all the best too x

  75. Marlia says:

    Does anyone have the recent photos of Marina and Anthony together?

  76. Jn says:

    Yep thats the one I saw too

  77. liz09 says:

    He look like her Dad or Uncle!

  78. Maria says:

    Looks like it’s been deleted!

  79. liz09 says:

    I just clicked on the link to the pic and it has been deleted.

  80. admin says:

    The photo has gone- I braved (lol Twice on there in one week!) Twitter to look! It showed AK looking straight to camera with his arm loosely around Marina and she was really snuggled up to him. She looked more into him than the other way round in all honesty.

    • Ms Smith says:

      I think they are FWB & that rarely ever changes. In gemeral she is more into him than he is her. He seems to swing back to her when he has nothing else going on. Has to be tough on her to know that. He was with Katya & others while with her. Katya is pretty classy. A model that created a foundation for indigenous people. Too bad it did not work out. The comments by her (MG) mother were really dumb about him dying. His money would go to his soul heir Everly.

  81. DC says:

    Is there a photo of anthony and marina at her familys house posted?

  82. JN says:

    Anthony met her job

    • liz09 says:

      I read his book a fews years ago and this is not the first time he as picked up a waitress and made them his GF. Whatever makes him happy, but good grief he could do so much better.

  83. Anat says:

    Katja and Anthony look rad together, also their style match :)))))))

    • Makeme says:

      Are they still “together”?

      The wanderingstarz instagram girl/Venice girl posted some pics form a RHCP concert the other day showing her (supposedly) on the side of the stage.

  84. Lou says:

    The picture on wanderstarz instagram is old flea’s hair is not like that any more and that quite frankly could be anyone standing there. Anthony was with the blonde in their video on their official instagram account of them in Rome when they were in Dublin last week. There were pics online but they’re not there now.

    Btw he walked passed me on street in dublin and I reckon he’about my height which is 5ft 9″ he was about 3 feet away!

  85. JN says:

    How did u not stop him!? Haha…

    The blonde is Katya i believe, who he seems to hang with sporadically but consistently

    Venice girl needs to let it go already, if its even her. Posting shit from a yr ago haha

  86. Lou says:

    Didn’t have chance to stop him, happened so quick, plus we all know AK doesn’t do autographs. Just googled katya and she didn’t look like any of the pics i found of her online but hey people change their look all the time! Have to say he’s even better in flesh.

  87. Lou says:

    I was wrong it’s not the girl in the video but the girl in the link is who I meant but it’s not the photo I saw – can’t find the link. The guy who took the photo showed me others he took that didn’t get published she’s in most. Having seen AK leave the hotel the following day i doubt she was some random but she wasn’t with him then so who knows. Perhaps i should have asked the paparazzo if she got in the car with him but it didn’t occur to me probably too excited i’d seen the boys up close and met Chad!

  88. Frances says:

    Anyone have any updates on Anthony? Need my AK fix 😉 x

  89. CM says:

    According to Marina’s twitter they are still seeing each other. Clueless as t o what they have in common, she post a lot about drinking and partying, typical 22 year old behavior. Dying to know more about them.

  90. CM says:

    Oh I just did some serious creeping and I found a comment on her friends Twitter, friend posted : I need to be with a man who can sing; which marina commented back and said “I was… highly recommend it” the past tense of this comment makes me think they are no longer seeing each other and this was posted 12/3/17.

  91. AN says:

    Hi! Newbie here!
    I’ve been dropping by this site for a while and finally wanted to comment. I find it really interesting that AK meets these random unknown girls at their jobs, becomes friends with them and then takes them places. This Marina chick is a lucky girl! Anyway I noticed that her twitter is now private. Maybe she still is seeing him but made her account private so she can post pics etc. If they are still friends I don’t see it lasting. She’s a very young girl that loves to party and eventually wants a boyfriend probably more her age. Her and AK have been hanging out for over a year now and it seems like he just wanted to be friends. You would think if he wanted more they would be dating by now? Also if all this is true that he hangs out with other girls besides her and if I was her I’d feel uncomfortable after a while. I’ve been there and it’s all innocent and fun at first but then time goes on and eventually feel like a third wheel which is not a good feeling especially when he might treat the other girls better than her.

  92. Miss Smith says:

    The girl with Anthony in the picture thst David Mushegain took I believe is David’s gf not AK. She has pictures of Hawaii on her IG all have David tagged, David was with them. One of the captions she says, “perfect day with perfect Dave. David puts hearts on all of her posts. Plus there’s no paparazzi pics of AK and this girl. DM also dated Stella Maxwell, so he gets the ladies.

  93. Elena says:

    I’ve found out very strange fact that Beth Jeans Houghton, with who Anthony dated in 2011, directed and illustrated the animated music video for “Sick Love”.
    That’s so weird when your ex is making video about your ralations with anothe ex

  94. liz09 says:

    Look like Marina has a boyfriend now from what I have seen on her twitter. Good for her 🙂

  95. lemgm says:

    it seems that the model christine gaybull that was photographed with Ak is really his girlfriend and not of david mushegain, in the stories of scottlips in the instagran she is wearing a necklace like what ak has used lately, but shorter ……. anyone with more info ??? I love this page

  96. lemgm says:

    David Mushegain and Christine were in the same week in NY for fashion week, and during the valentines days and time some posted photos together and by the stories of both were in different places and David posted pictures with friends in bars and she always in the stories of ig in different places, then …. very suspicious …… in her ig one of the last pictures in which she appears in a bed she calls David from “my friend” I think they really are friends and she met ak through from him in hawaii…… Apologies for my English ….

  97. Clara says:

    Wanessa Milhomen posted a picture with Anthony on her instagram yesterday.

    • admin says:

      Thank you! I’ve seen it around but didn’t know where the original came from.

      • Clara says:

        I think they’re in Paris, because Wanessa is and David Mushegain posted a pic sayg: “the early train to Paris tomorrow”

        • admin says:

          I don’t think AK is. He was in LA yesterday for the opening of a Damien Hirst exhibition and was in Montana at the weekend (he was spotted at the airport as he was leaving). Ak seems to be leaving the fashion weeks alone this year.

  98. liz09 says:

    If you notice Wanessa’s picture says it is a “Throwback” so it is from a few years ago more than likely. I don’t follow her but saw it on FB. Looks like Anthony is super single right now.

    • Margo says:

      Finally somebody said that.

      I really hope for him to finally find a really nice, responsible woman who’s not in her early 20s, so he can finally find some real happiness, love, stability, peace.

  99. admin says:

    I’ve removed a few comments tonight. I’m not trying to censor what people say and I’ve left some comments with similar sentiments but wording is important and some of the comments could have landed the site in legal issues as they were cutting it a bit close to the wire. It’s nothing personal against the posters and I hope people understand.

  100. Corinna says:

    I wasn’t able to be online the last days, because I’m on vacation.
    But I can imagene what there were comments about …I understand you (admin) that you have to remove them…
    I only want to say that I was very sad to hear about that. Sorry for my bad English.I love this page.

    • liz09 says:

      It was not about that topic, that is so sad and can’t believe such private information would even get out to the public.

      • admin says:

        As Liz08 said, the comments weren’t about the topic you’ve mentioned Corinna. I know a lot of people feel the same way as the comments made about the ages of girlfriends but I have to be really careful about what is actually said. I don’t like deleting comments or censoring what people say and normally avoid it <3

        Corinna, I've not run the information you commented on this site for the very reasons you've mentioned. I was sent a link to the news site with the 'exclusive' and I immediately decided not to post the information- I don't like changing comments, but I'm going to remove part of yours if that's OK? I think you won't mind from what you've said. So glad you like the site! Your English is great 🙂

  101. Freedom Ring says:

    I work in law and there has not been anything I have seen on here remotely close to illegal. I have the feeling the admin. just loathes anything even closely negative said about AK, even if it is the truth. Does anyone know if there is site that allows more freedom and flow of conversation?

    • admin says:

      There are negative comments and ones I personally disagree with but there is a line that I draw- I’m sorry you disagree with it but it’s me that will face any consequences should there be an issue and I am the one paying for the hosting and domain name so I think I have every right to decide what I feel is acceptable or not and recently I felt that some comments had crossed the line that I was comfortable with. I am aware that this site features a real life person who has friends and family and I try to be respectful of that. I try to make things as accurate as I can but it is a fan site dedicated to AK so it is going to have a favourable bias by its very nature. I know there are a couple of Facebook groups dedicated to the band/Ak that don’t have restrictions so maybe that would be a place to start looking for an alternative? I hope you find what you are looking for.

    • Wende Gibbs says:

      Yes, like I want to hear directly from him

  102. admin says:

    Polite Reminder:

    This site is dedicated to a real life person who has feelings and emotions. He has a right to respect and privacy in his private life. Some things are really not in the fan domain and I’ve always had cut off points on this website, and my other fan pages, so I’m reiterating that. He also has family and friends who likewise have feelings and have right to respect and privacy too. Please bear that in mind when currently posting. I will delete/edit comments out of respect if need be. I hope people understand. Peace <3

  103. lemgm says:

    news !!!! Anthony was seen yesterday afternoon in Nick Fouquet Store with Wanessa Milhomem !!! Yes everything indicates that they are seeing each other again !!! She is living in LA !!!!

  104. Corinna says:

    Wanessa posted pics on her instagram that Vincent Gallo is her dad?Isn’t he Heather’s Ex-boyfriend?Very scary..

  105. Heather Marie says:

    I would give that man everything he needs and I promise he would never sing about his relationship going sour.

  106. Grace says:

    New pictures and videos of Anthony with new girlfriend in Rio. The girl is looking very young, Helena Vestergard type.

  107. Liz09 says:

    The girl in Rio, someone posted her IG account on there when I was looking at concert footage. She is a young South American girl, looks similar to Helena. I will not say her name on here for privacy, but geez AK you really are pathetic at this point in your life with this girls lol.

  108. Helen says:

    Cammie is the actress Cameron Richardson

  109. Darleen says:

    Wanessa was only joking when she said that Vincent Gallo was her dad. She knew Anthony Kiedis was extremely jealous of Vincent Gallo and stated it to get back at Anthony who was not treating her well at the time. Wanessa and Vincent were just casual friends as Gallo has been dating the past 6 years. However Vincent Gallo did date Heather Christie on and off over a period of a few years. Dating her between and during her relationships with Anthony. At one point Heather Christie had Vincent Gallo’s name tattooed on her ass. (covered it up with a bow) . She still has a tattoo on her arm with a quote written on a purse Gallo has on his merchandise website. Vincent Gallo and Anthony Kiedis were casual friends before the Heather drama. But rumor has it that Anthony cannot bare the fact that Heather cheated on him multiply times with Gallo and told him how amazing the sex was. So now Anthony turns white when he sees Gallo. Gallo remained friends with Heather.

  110. Em says:

    I just googled Marina Garpow out of curiosity, looks like she’s pregnant!


  111. Johanna says:

    If anyone is still interested, Helena did a podcast (“All Of Us”) where she discusses that period of her life but doesn’t mention AK by name. She describes a serious battle with bulimia as well as severe depression, and that her then-boyfriend paid for her to go into residential treatment at least once (I think maybe twice). She also pretty much nixes the idea that she could have been pregnant (counter to speculation about the lyric in The Getaway). She doesn’t say what ended the relationship but it doesn’t seem she went straight home after the breakup with AK as she also dated Ryan Ross (formerly of Panic at the Disco) before she met her husband and moved back to Australia to be with him.

    Her catalogue modelling career has really taken off since she’s been back and she seems happy and has two beautiful babies.

    • admin says:

      I heard it. I didn’t do a post about it because that seemed a little invasive as it was so personal (it’s fine as a comment as it’s not so public) and because she didn’t actually mention AK although it was 99% definite that she was talking about him.

      The break up: She went home for her birthday in December and stayed for Christmas, went back to LA and there were a couple of cryptic tweets about LA spitting her out… I think she went back to Australia before returning to LA to be with Ryan. It’s been so long it’s all a bit blurry now!

      Yes, she seems really happy now and that is the important thing.

  112. Dick hyder says:

    Hey bro I’ve been following you since the 80’s. My good friend daughter getting married the 27th of next month, please send a shout out to Payton. Real men don’t kill coyotes

  113. Mari-Cruz says:

    In 1992 he wrote, “I truly long for the perfect monogamous relationship. I sometimes think I would be well advised to go to a remote corner of the globe to find my wife.”

  114. Mari-Cruz says:

    Explaining his attraction to young women:

    „Es ist nicht so, als ob ich auf junge Models stehe. Ich mag einfach Menschen, die noch nicht übersättigt sind. Die nicht denken: ‚Ich habe alles gesehen und erlebt.‘ Das sorgt dafür, dass ich nicht selbstgefällig werde oder gelangweilt von Dingen bin, von denen ich glaube, dass ich sie kenne. Klar, fühle ich mich auch von jüngeren Menschen angezogen. Und das ist eine Schwäche, die Vor- und Nachteile hat. Aber jedes Mal, wenn ich das zu ändern versuche, klappt es nicht – insofern soll es wohl so sein.“

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